Stop prompting.
Start steering the conversation.
Telling AI what you don't want is 10x more powerful than telling it what you do. Learn how to use the 4 Control Knobs to calibrate the machine before every interaction.
The Negotiator's Frame.
Hostage negotiators don't walk into a room and start making demands. They set the frame. They establish the conditions of the conversation before they ask for anything.
Most people treat AI like a vending machine—input text, get product. Thinking Modes teaches you how to treat it like a thinking partner.
FROM_THE_BUILDER
"I wrote this because I was tired of AI books written by theorists. I'm a full-stack developer with 25 years in the trenches, and this is the operating system I use every day to ship products." — Carmelyne V.M. Thompson
Meet the 4 Control Knobs
Adjust these four levers to set the "State" of the AI before you begin.
GOAL
The shape of success.
EXCLUSION
What to leave out.
CONSTRAINT
The box it lives in.
ROLE
The perspective required.
16 chapters. Zero fluff.
Each chapter is short and focused — built for people who want to understand the idea and move on to using it.
The Core Theory
- Chapter 1: AI Rewards Clarity
Why some people get magic and others get mush - Chapter 2: How We Learn
Understanding your own process changes everything - Chapter 3: States, Not Feelings
The mental shift that changes everything - Chapter 4: The Negotiator Analogy
What hostage negotiators know that you don’t - Chapter 5: The 4 Control Knobs
Your complete toolkit for steering AI conversations - Chapter 6: The Shared Mental Model
Why saying “pink” doesn’t mean the same pink
Deep Dives
- Chapter 7: Why Experts Get Better Answers
It’s not what you know — it’s how you ask - Chapter 8: Engineered Love & Emotional UX
How to tell care from capture
Practical Application
- Chapter 9: Common Mistakes
The patterns that trip everyone up - Chapter 10: The Checklist
Your pre-flight check for every AI conversation - Chapter 11: AI as a Thinking Gym
How to get smarter by talking to machines - Chapter 12: Long Horizon Tasks
When the conversation spans days, not minutes - Chapter 13: Optimizing Your AI Memory
How to teach AI who you are - Chapter 14: Persona Attractors
How role patterns emerge, resonate, and stabilize
Workbook & Resources
- Workbook & Practice Plan
6 exercises + 30 Days to Fluency - Resources & Closing
Where to go from here
WHO_THIS_IS_NOT_FOR
If you're looking for a list of 500 "copy-paste prompts" or a magic button that does all the work for you without your brain engaged — this is not that book.
This is for people who want to be better thinkers while using AI.
Ready to think with AI —
not just at it?
Pick up Thinking Modes and start your next conversation with clarity.
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